坦白、直爽最能得人心 Frankness and straightforwardness gains popularity quickly
要做真正的知己,就必须互相信任。
——〔俄〕列夫·托尔斯泰
To be real friends,the two must trust each other。
(Russia)Lev Tolstoy
真诚的、十分理智的友谊是人生的无价之宝。
——〔德〕马克思
Sincere and rational friendship is priceless treasure in life。
(Germany)Marx
友谊建立在同志中,巩固在真挚上,发展在批评里,断送在奉承中。
——〔苏联〕列宁
Friendship is formed among comrades,strengthened in sincerity,developed in criticism and killed in flatter。
(Soviet Union)Lenin
坦白、直爽最能得人心。
——〔法〕巴尔扎克
Being frank and straightforward can gain popularity quickly。
(France)Balzac
真诚的友谊是不多心的。
——〔西班牙〕塞万提斯
Sincere friendship is not suspicious。
(Spain)Cervantes
所谓友谊这首先是诚恳,是批评同志的错误。
——〔苏联〕奥斯特洛夫斯基
The so-called friendship first comes from its sincerity,that is,to criticize comrades mistakes。
(Soviet Union)Asterovsky
人与人之间最大的信任就是关于进言的信任。
——〔英〕培根
The biggest trust between people is trust of giving advice。
(Britain)Bacon
最能保人心神之健康的预防药,就是朋友的忠言规谏。
——〔英〕培根
The best preventive medicine to keep one healthy both physically and mentally is a friend s good suggestion。
(Britain)Bacon
赠人以言,重于金石珠玉。
——荀况
Offering suggestions is more valuable than giving jewels or jades。
Xun Kuang
把自己的缺点告诉你的朋友是莫大的信任,把他的缺点告诉他是更大的信任。
——〔美〕富兰克林
It is great trust to tell your friend your shortcomings,while it is greater trust to tell your friend his shortcomings。
(America)Franklin
我们由朋友处得到忠告,它的功效比我们的理解与判断所发出的更明朗、更纯净。因为我们自己的理解和判断永远染有感情与习俗上的成见。
——〔英〕卡莱尔
We get suggestions from our friends,whose effect is clearer and purer than what we understand and judge,because our own understanding and judgment are often influenced by emotional and customary prejudice。
(Britain)Carlyle
朋友间有误会应当坦率地交换看法,不可背后诽谤;有过失应当面规劝之,在背后应赞扬他的优点。
——〔日本〕贝原益轩
If there is misunderstanding between friends,they should exchange ideas frankly,not defame each other in the back。Correct your friend s mistakes in person,and praise his advantages behind his back。
(Japan)Kaibara Ekiken
能对你开怀直言的人,便是你的挚友。
——〔英〕约翰逊
Those who can give you suggestions openly are your real friends。
(Britain)Johnson
长相知,才能不相疑;不相疑,才能长相知。
——曹禺
After being close friends for a long time,they will have no suspicion;with no suspicion,they will be close friends for longer。
Cao Yu
与人交往,待人以至诚,才能换取真挚的友谊。
——〔美〕卡耐基
To gain sincere friends,one must treat them sincerely when associating with others。
(America)Carnegie
请觉悟“与人共同生活”的重要性,常怀感恩的心,以不忘恩,不忽略感谢,尊重义气的心与人相交往。
——〔日本〕松下幸之助
Please be aware of the importance of“living together with others”,entertain gratitude often so as not to forget other s help to you。Do not neglect thanking,and associate with respect and loyalty。
(Japan)Matsushita Konosuke
§§第十六章 青春——青年者,人生之王、人生之春、人生之华也